Some of us have a love/hate relationship with success. We may come from families where being poor was a synonym for honorable and “service” meant giving away everything you are good at for free. We want more, but we either feel guilty, or are made to feel guilty by family and friends when [...]
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Asking The Right Questions
February 8th, 2010
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When I’m frustrated, overwhelmed, or stuck, I find that asking myself questions helps get me out of the rut. Examining what I’m experiencing and the feelings around it are usually enough to moving and motivated. Understanding my feelings around an issue, my motives and fears help me to come up with a plan and get [...]
Crutches, Cures, Enablers and Egos
February 3rd, 2010
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Sometimes, crutches are needed. When someone is hurt or broken, temporarily, they cannot move on their own. Pain distracts them from being effective. Crutches help bear the burden and the weight and give the reprieve needed for healing. Ultimately, though, bearing weight and walking unaided is what helps rehabilitate and facilitate healing. When crutches are used beyond the prescribed period, it can cripple people, sometimes permanently.
