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	<title>Comments on: How To Transform Failure Into Success</title>
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		<title>By: Affiliate Masters</title>
		<link>http://www.stacijshelton.com/2010/05/02/how-to-transform-failure-into-success/comment-page-1/#comment-737</link>
		<dc:creator>Affiliate Masters</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Sep 2010 20:23:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree Staci..Beautifully put..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree Staci..Beautifully put..</p>
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		<title>By: Destination Failure: Why It's Not Always The Worst &#124; Women Grow Business</title>
		<link>http://www.stacijshelton.com/2010/05/02/how-to-transform-failure-into-success/comment-page-1/#comment-703</link>
		<dc:creator>Destination Failure: Why It's Not Always The Worst &#124; Women Grow Business</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Aug 2010 20:32:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] How to transform failure into success from Staci J. Shelton [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Staci J. Shelton</title>
		<link>http://www.stacijshelton.com/2010/05/02/how-to-transform-failure-into-success/comment-page-1/#comment-625</link>
		<dc:creator>Staci J. Shelton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Jul 2010 03:44:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Doing what we love and having people that we love is success. Anything above and beyond is gravy...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Doing what we love and having people that we love is success. Anything above and beyond is gravy&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Lisa Ellwood</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lisa Ellwood</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jun 2010 14:04:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This brings to mind comments that I&#039;ve had in my previous incarnation as a Freelancer - people making backhanded comments about how *maybe one day you&#039;ll be successful*. In their eyes, my life was nothing but failure - even though I earned a good living, worked hard and was a decent friend and colleague. Even in the corporate world having a ... See morepermanent job - I was *just* a Junior Manager on a *minor* team. No matter how hard I worked or how much I moved up the ladder - it still wasn&#039;t enough to be considered successful. Strange...

Success takes many forms and it&#039;s not about being the biggest and/or the best and having it all. More power to the people who measure success by how big their bank balance is, the *ideal* trophy partner, high powered job, high maintenance lifestyle... you get the picture. Values and standards are important - but it seems to me too many of us value the wrong things and put a lot of unnecessary pressure on ourselves and other people.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This brings to mind comments that I&#8217;ve had in my previous incarnation as a Freelancer &#8211; people making backhanded comments about how *maybe one day you&#8217;ll be successful*. In their eyes, my life was nothing but failure &#8211; even though I earned a good living, worked hard and was a decent friend and colleague. Even in the corporate world having a &#8230; See morepermanent job &#8211; I was *just* a Junior Manager on a *minor* team. No matter how hard I worked or how much I moved up the ladder &#8211; it still wasn&#8217;t enough to be considered successful. Strange&#8230;</p>
<p>Success takes many forms and it&#8217;s not about being the biggest and/or the best and having it all. More power to the people who measure success by how big their bank balance is, the *ideal* trophy partner, high powered job, high maintenance lifestyle&#8230; you get the picture. Values and standards are important &#8211; but it seems to me too many of us value the wrong things and put a lot of unnecessary pressure on ourselves and other people.</p>
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		<title>By: Staci J.Shelton</title>
		<link>http://www.stacijshelton.com/2010/05/02/how-to-transform-failure-into-success/comment-page-1/#comment-587</link>
		<dc:creator>Staci J.Shelton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jun 2010 13:42:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for your comments! We have to remember not to quit. Life, joy, happiness are sciences. You try a thing, it works, or doesn&#039;t.  If it doesn&#039;t make some tweaks and test it again.  The key is not to take it personally or let the &quot;didn&#039;t work&quot; events cause us to quit. 

Dream it, plan it, do it!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for your comments! We have to remember not to quit. Life, joy, happiness are sciences. You try a thing, it works, or doesn&#8217;t.  If it doesn&#8217;t make some tweaks and test it again.  The key is not to take it personally or let the &#8220;didn&#8217;t work&#8221; events cause us to quit. </p>
<p>Dream it, plan it, do it!!</p>
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